DEAR RHONA: I've worked in a small law office for two years and am the most junior member. There's one lawyer, 35, divorced who has helped me out. At an office party he made some moves that I wrote off to inebriation and we avoided each other for a week. I like him very much -- I feel he fulfils my idea of the ideal man (intellectually stimulating, witty, fun, helpful, etc). I just don't know where I stand with him. A few months ago he gave me a lift home and we stopped for drinks.