Although I started my Raptors relationship with season tickets in the early years (more of a corporate adventure with one of our companies), it was really a platonic relationship.
I fell in love with NBA basketball in Salt Lake City, Utah. For many years, I travelled with an inveterate group of downhill skiers (mostly Northerners) who would fly to Utah to ski in the mountains at a place called Alta. Every Thursday, of every week, of every year we were there, we would truck down the mountain for hot dogs and observe the Utah Jazz destroy their competition. Like most men of a certain age, we didn't like change and became discombobulated as a group when one of us would recommend against hauling our exhausted assess down the mountain in a nine-passenger van through whatever snowstorm was blowing up from Salt Lake. When you're in the mountains, storms are good. In that particular location, they brought the best powder in the world. You could get a couple of feet with a good one. The trip down the mountain amounted to risking your life for a basketball team you saw once a year in another country and never thought about again until next year's ski trip.
The Jazz had a guard named John Stockton and a big man by the name of Karl Malone ("the Mailman") and they owned the court. They had fun, they had personalities, they liked one another, and they were well loved. Part of the fabric of community life. In John Stockton's 19-year career (he played with no other team) they never missed the playoffs and won the occasional conference cup. They were very good for a very long time. They played hard, but somehow you knew in your gut they were not going to go all the way, and that was okay.
Only now, after the extraordinary run of the Raptors this year, does a comparison to the Utah Jazz make so much sense to me. Stockton and Malone, of course, are Toronto's DeMar DeRozan and Kyle Lowry. Well loved, competitive, part of the community, all-stars, good people. On the civility front (although not the multicultural one), Salt Lake City feels very much like a 1980s Toronto. Well mannered, polite, clean, enthused, but not over the top.
This year, I took in the finals with my youngest daughter, Jackie, in Sudbury at a local St. Louis Bar and Grill each night with their wall-to-wall big-screen TVs. To hold...